Personal mastery · framework worksheet
Interpersonal effectiveness audit
“Am I as easy to work with as I think?”
Rate yourself honestly on the behaviours that decide whether people bring you truth or manage you. Then have someone who knows you rate you too.
step 1
I can calm myself under stress
step 2
I think before I speak (not the reverse)
step 3
I model the standards I demand from others
step 4
In conflict I protect the relationship while getting needs met
step 5
My feedback is based on patterns, not one-off moods
step 6
I listen fully before forming my answer
step 7
Ask one colleague to score you on the same six. Where do the two scores disagree most, and what does that tell you?
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